What is Resilience?

Every single person experiences setbacks, difficulties, stressors, and failures throughout their life. Financial stress, relationship problems, health issues, work stress, a serious accident, social justice issues, a global pandemic, or the death of a loved one are all examples of adversities that could drastically affect your mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health.

People respond differently to life’s challenges, experiencing a unique blend of thoughts, emotions, and coping mechanisms. Overall, people tend to adapt to stress or life-changing situations over time, due in large part to resilience. 

The American Psychological Association defines resilience as “the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats or even significant sources of stress.” We will all face situations that are painful to experience, but resilient people understand that these situations don’t have to determine the outcome of their life. Resilience empowers you to grow, strengthen yourself, and improve your life.

Domains of Resilience

There are 4 primary domains of resilience:

  1. Physical resilience includes your strength, endurance, and ability to recover when your body is sick.
  2. Mental resilience includes your attention span, ability to focus and think clearly, and your capacity to incorporate multiple points of view in conversations with others and in life.
  3. Emotional resilience includes your ability to adapt to stressful situations, ability to self regulate, level of self-compassion and self-belief, and ability to have a positive outlook.
  4. Spiritual resilience includes your commitment to your own values and beliefs and your tolerance of others values and beliefs.

What Resilience is Not

Being resilient does not mean that life will be perfect.  You will still experience difficulty and stress, and you will feel emotions like sadness, anger, or grief. Resilience is not about “hardening up” or “toughing it out.” Suffering adversity or trauma is often accompanied by stress and emotional pain. The goal isn’t to be rid of all pain and difficult emotions, but to strengthen our ability to relate to painful emotions, increase our capacity to adapt to adversity, and move forward in a healthy manner. 

How to Strengthen Your Resilience

Resilience is not a personality trait that only certain people possess. Instead, it involves thoughts and behaviors that can be intentionally practiced and cultivated over time. To increase your resilience and your capacity to adapt and grow from life’s difficulties, try these strategies.

Maintain a positive outlook.

How you think can determine how you feel, and resilience is strongly tied to your emotional state. When you spend an extended amount of time stuck in negative emotions – frustrated, angry, sad, overwhelmed – it depletes you of your energy and chips away at your resilience. On the other hand, positive emotions – love, appreciation, happiness, curiosity, peace, compassion – hold great power for renewing your capacity to recover from the stressors of life. 

Keep things in perspective.

When things get difficult, it can be easy to slip into patterns of irrational thinking, like catastrophizing the situation or thinking the world is out to get you. When you try to notice yourself reverting to these destructive ways of thinking, you can adopt a more balanced, realistic perspective. Even if you can not change a situation, you can change how you interpret it and respond to it. 

Accept what you can not change.

There will always be things in your life that you do not have the power to change. By focusing on the circumstance that you do have control over, you can uplift and encourage yourself to take positive action.

Practice mindfulness.

Mindfulness is the ability to be fully present to what is happening right now. By cultivating a non-judgemental awareness of what is happening in this moment, both inside and outside, you can improve your emotional regulation, reduce your stress levels, and increase your capacity for resilience. Mindfulness is a great technique that you can use to stay balanced at any point in life. 

Practice other stress reduction techniques.

Ask yourself, “What brings me peace?” Then do more of that. Some ideas include journaling, yoga, exercise, breathing exercises, creative practices (painting, photography, cooking), walking, gratitude practices, taking a warm bath, progressive muscle relaxation, getting a massage, stretching, laughing, spending time with a friend or family member, or listening to music. 

The Functional Medicine of Idaho health coaches offer a Heart Math Shared Medical Visit that teaches you a stress reduction technique that facilitates a coherent heart rhythm, which helps build resilience capacity and energy reserves. Call our office to sign up: (208) 385-7711.

Avoid negative outlets.

During particularly stressful situations, it can be tempting to cope with alcohol, drugs, or other substances in order to reduce the pain. Using substances to deal with emotional pain is like putting a bandaid on a gaping wound – it doesn’t actually fix the problem. When you are feeling stressed and overwhelmed, focus on giving your body the proper resources to manage stress instead of trying to be rid of the feelings altogether. 

Eat nutritious food.

The food you choose to eat is either promoting your health or making your body work harder for health. When your body has to work harder for health, it will have a harder time giving you the energy and emotional presence you need in order to handle difficulties. Eat whole, unprocessed foods, like colorful vegetables, low glycemic fruits, healthy fats, legumes, and animal proteins. Eat fat and protein with every meal. Avoid processed, sugary foods and beverages, caffeine, and alcohol.

The Functional Medicine of Idaho nutritionist can help you develop a customized plan of high-quality, nutrient-dense foods to address imbalances and foster the connection between nourishment and healing. Call our office to schedule an appointment: (208) 385-7711.

Get proper sleep.

Sleep dictates how well we perform mentally, physically, spiritually, and sexually. Improving your sleep can help balance hormones, improve digestion and metabolism, boost immune function, and improve mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical health. 

The Functional Medicine of Idaho health coaches offer a Sleep Shared Medical Visit that teaches you how to optimize your hormones, routine, nutrition, and environment for quality sleep. Call our office to sign up: (208) 385-7711.

Move your body.

Regular exercise can strengthen your body to adapt to stress and reduce the toll of emotions like anxiety or depression.

Develop strong personal connections.

Are the relationships in your life building you up and giving you strength? Having a range of positive, supportive, and empathetic connections with trustworthy individuals who validate your feelings will support your developing skill of resilience. When going through a stressful or traumatic situation, you may feel the urge to isolate yourself, but it’s important to accept help and be around people who encourage you. If you don’t have good, supportive people in your life, take steps to find them by joining a club, a group, or a class to meet new people.

If you feel like you need some guidance on developing resilience in your own life, our health coaches are here to help. Click here to learn more

Stephanie Ritari, PA-C

Stephanie Ritari is a board-certified Physician Assistant who offers primary care for adults at the Functional Medicine of Idaho Meridian Wellness Center. She specializes in Internal Medicine and has spent the majority of her career in the field of cardiovascular disorders.

Stephanie has more than 15 years experience as a Physician Assistant in a variety of medical areas, including cardiology and electrophysiology. Holistic practices have long been a part of Stephanie’s lifestyle, with a particular focus on clean living and nutrition. She has embedded functional principles into her conventional medicine practice throughout her career. After watching family members struggle to find answers for their chronic illnesses, Stephanie became more interested in finding ways to take a root cause approach in her own practice. Wanting to provide a proactive, comprehensive, and preventative scope of care for her patients, Stephanie began studying functional medicine. In 2021, she joined Functional Medicine of Idaho, where she is able to provide evidence based, root cause medicine.

Stephanie earned her Bachelor's of Science in Exercise Physiology from the University of Montana and her masters in Physician Assistant Studies from Rocky Mountain College. She is currently working towards her certification with The Institute for Functional Medicine. 

In her spare time, Stephanie enjoys spending time with her husband, son, and dog doing outdoor activities including biking, hiking, and skiing. She also loves interior design and traveling, and is hoping to start her own garden in the near future.

Dr. David Musnick, MD, IFMCP

David Musnick is a board-certified medical doctor who offers in-person and telemedicine care from the Functional Medicine of Idaho Eagle clinic (coming soon). Dr. Musnick offers Functional Medicine, Sports Medicine, Functional Immunology, and Primary Care for adults and teenagers. He specializes in sports medicine, internal medicine, frequency specific microcurrent (FSM), scars, homeopathy, prolotherapy, and low-level laser treatments. 

Dr. Musnick is interested in getting to the root of underlying causes and factors that affect healing, including diet, sleep, exercise, stress, GI health, brain region health, toxins, hormones, infections, and electromagnetic fields (EMF). In medical school, Dr. Musnick spent a year studying nutrition. He has always been interested in the complex interrelationships of different systems of the body. Taking on challenges in the past, he created new treatment programs to heal the brain after concussion, treat chronic pain, arthritis, and tough SIBO and IBS cases. Dr. Musnick wants to help his patients achieve the highest level of health, vitality and function. 

After his internal medicine residency in Seattle, Dr. Musnick completed a fellowship in sports medicine where he became interested in helping patients get back to optimal musculoskeletal health and eventually back to their favorite activities. He quickly learned that many areas of the body were interrelated and started learning more about nutrition, supplements, and other facets of functional medicine. Dr. Musnick has more than 24 years of experience in Functional Medicine and achieved a very high level of both experience and expertise with many health conditions. He is also the author of the book, Conditioning for Outdoor Fitness, and helped in writing textbook chapters on arthritis and concussions.

Dr. Musnick received his Doctorate of Medicine from the University of California, San Francisco. He is certified through the Institute for Functional Medicine as an IFMCP. He also studied in the French school of Homeopathy. He is uniquely rare in that he teaches Frequency Specific Microcurrent (FSM) and how to integrate it with functional medicine. 

In his spare time, Dr. Musnick enjoys hiking, nature photography, cooking healthy food, mountain biking, and skiing.

IFM Certified Practitioner

Aaron Dykstra, DNP, FNP-C

Aaron Dykstra is a board certified Family Nurse Practitioner with a Doctor of Nursing Practice degree. He offers pediatric primary care, including well-child checks and acute visits, in the Pediatric Department of the Functional Medicine of Idaho Meridian Wellness Center.

Functional and alternative therapies were a part of Aaron’s life from a young age, and he has implemented these principles into his conventional medicine practice throughout his career. Aaron has more than 8 years of experience in a variety of medical disciplines, including pediatrics, obstetrics, mental health, and nutrition. He has practiced in rural health clinics in California and Oregon. For the last 5 years, Aaron has had a passion for working with children and implementing positive change through the family unit. Aaron joined the Functional Medicine of Idaho Pediatric Team in 2021. His enthusiasm for educating children and parents about living a healthy lifestyle allows him to provide preventative and acute care for infants, children, and adolescents. 

Aaron obtained his Bachelor of Science in Nursing at Brigham Young University. He earned both his Master’s of Science in Nursing and Doctor of Nursing Practice through the University of Arizona. He has obtained a Family Herbalist and Family Nutritionist certifications through The School of Natural Healing by Dr. Christopher. He is currently working towards his certification with The Institute for Functional Medicine.

Outside of work, you will find Aaron spending time with his wife and 5 kids, mountain biking, running, or camping in the backyard. Aaron is a big fan of Master Chef and enjoys cooking.

Nadia Kravchuk, DNP, FNP-C

Nadia Kravchuk is a board certified Family Nurse Practitioner with a Doctor of Nursing Practice degree. She offers functional pediatric primary care, including well-child checks and acute visits, in the Pediatric Department of the Functional Medicine of Idaho Meridian Wellness Center.

Nadia and her family immigrated to the United States in 1989 where they first settled in Oregon and then moved to Idaho in 2001. Complementary medicine practices were embedded into her lifestyle at a young age, and she has implemented these principles into her conventional medicine practice throughout her career. She has more than 15 years experience in a variety of medical environments, including emergency room, intensive care unit, pediatrics, obstetrics and gynecology, family practice, and aesthetics.

Nadia joined Functional Medicine of Idaho so that she can combine functional principles with the foundations of conventional medicine to address the underlying causes of disease and promote optimal wellness. As an avid gardener, beekeeper, and sustainable living enthusiast, she understands the importance and role of optimizing nutrition, sleep, physical, spiritual, and emotional well-being. She has a passion for pediatric functional medicine and understands that early recognition and interventions can correct imbalances, prevent chronic illness, and improve overall outcomes for children.

Nadia obtained her Bachelor of Science in Nursing at Northwest Nazarene University. She earned both her Master’s of Science in Nursing and Doctor of Nursing Practice through Frontier Nursing University. In 2017, she was the recipient of the HCA Excellence in Nursing Award. She is currently working towards her certification with The Institute for Functional Medicine.

Outside of work, you will find Nadia working on her urban homestead, hiking, foraging, camping, snowboarding, and spending time with her husband and her dog, Wolfy. She is also fluent in both English and Russian.